These articles are specifically focused on you taking care of yourself, and soothing yourself back into being the powerful, playful, happy creator who you were born as.
Your liberation, and the liberation of your loved ones, comes from re-associating love with freedom and joy, and not with "be what I want you to be so that I can feel love for you".
Learning to take more responsibility and deliberately choosing your emotional state irrespective of any activity empowers your decision making ability.
A person who is starving will put any morsel they can into their mouth. A person who is nourished will be more picky, and only choose what they enjoy. If you can approach life predominantly from the latter perspective, you will experience more of what you want and less of what you settle for.